have you tryed to update the game from the AOM menu?
I know russian guys who had no problem to update their game, and I think they used the same patch.
or here http://download.microsoft.com/download/6/7/5/6759ee43-b016-48f3-b69d-e4455ac36cdd/aomx10to103.exe
then, once updated, you have to replace aomx.exe in aom folder by this crack
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