some points to check.
1 : I've already seen the version problem, even if you patch it correctly and use the same crack.
But I'm not sure you've got the right patch : everybody use this one : http://www.pclive-assistance.fr/dl/aomx.exe
if it doesn't work with that crack, reinstall your game with thi setup (ever patched and cracked for gr) : http://www.pclive-assistance.fr/dl/AOM_Gold.rar
2 : Lol, you hide your IP address but it's useless, we can't access it.
your port seems to be well forwarded in your router. If your friend is connecting to gr with the same router, he will have the port restricted problem.
3 : The IP displayed in your game window is the private IP (of your local network). If you try to play on Internet, it won't work. But when you'll launch the game with gameranger, it will use your public IP and it should work.
So, check point 1 and tell me is your problem persists.
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